How to Manipulate Anyone Without Them Knowing (Psychological Tricks) 1. Mirroring – Copy the other person’s body language, tone, and speech patterns to build instant trust. Example: If they cross their arms, you subtly do the same. It makes them feel connected to you. 2. Pacing & Leading – Start by matching their energy, then gradually shift it to guide their behavior. Example: If they’re upset, match their concern first, then slowly calm your tone to influence them to relax. 3. Foot-in-the-Door